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Here we find people who are tried and true, who cling to tradition as though they were part of it.Yet their moods and even their purposes may become as changeable as the sign's ruling planet, the Moon.
This self-contradiction is understandable, when recognized as part of the individual's innate nature.
These people are home loving, fond of family life and domestic tranquility but they also enjoy travel and adventure.
They love the past and sometimes practically live in it, which accounts for the way they seek the new, yet always come back to the old.
Persons born under this sign are very sensitive, though they frequently din not show it.
Argument wears them down, criticism hurts them and crablike, they crawl into their shells.
Though strongly conservative, they are fond of social life.
These people are frequently vivacious and are humanitarians as well, devoting themselves to worthy causes.
YOU AND YOUR SIGN
The Sun awakened Cancer the Crab, a feminine sign in the zodiac on your birthday. The Sun in astrology stands for your inner nature, your essential character. The fourth sign of the Zodiac, Cancer is ruled by the restless Moon. A cardinal (creative and original) sign, Cancer governs home life, matters to do with women (especially the mother), as well as sensitivity and emotional intensity. It is a water sign, so Cancerian people are emotionally intense and deeper than they appear on the surface, while quite sensitive and understanding once you get through that tough exterior.
The Sun, ruler of our inner nature, is somewhat dimmed in Cancer, the home of the Moon. Creative and romantic, with a strong love of home, family and tradition, you are a good communicator and a strong provider. Your deep sensitivity presents you with valuable and illuminating intuitions, especially regarding those you care for.
Powerful Intuition
Paradoxically combining a love of travel with a deep need for security, you surround yourself with sentimental objects from the past, including souvenirs, hand-me-downs and keepsakes. Cancerians are remarkably good at accumulating things; indeed, you can be unwilling to throw anything out, even relationships that have passed their use-by date.
Cancer is also good with money and generally takes a long-term view. The main thing to remember is not to let the powerful, turbulent emotions of the moment crowd out your normally rational judgement. Your intuitions are reliable and should be trusted; you may even have natural psychic powers, which may be developed, given the right circumstances.
Hard Shell
The emblem for Cancer is the Crab, a creature with a very hard shell which protects a soft interior. The crab walks sideways, which is how the Cancerian skirts around a problem until forced to take it on with gritty determination and a creative flair. The crab's large claws hang on to its possessions for dear life, just as the Cancerian collects things to beautify the environment and bravely defends the home turf.
Cancerians make good business people, combining artistry, originality and drive with an understanding of financial matters, marketing and the needs of the public. You can trust your intuitions, but you do need to generate a faith in yourself which will not be dampened by gloom or depression over what, in retrospect, may appear to be relatively insignificant problems. You have the natural ability to be diplomatic and to speak out when necessary or keep your mouth shut. Home and family ties will be significant in your life and developing a secure, comfortable home environment will be a boon to your state of mind, irrespective of your marital state.
Emotional Release
Physical fitness or sports activities can become important ways for you to work out emotional stress. Team sports are fun, for you can adopt team members as part of an extended family. Swimming, fishing, sailing and other water activities attract you, along with skiing, ice skating, and mountain climbing. Cancerians are creative. Even those among you who may not have any particular talent can use some involvement with art, music, or writing as another method of emotional release, rather than indulging in eating binges or other destructive habits. Living or spending time near the water is a relaxing, as well as creatively stimulating environment for Cancerians.
Cancer rules the stomach, diaphragm, upper liver and breasts. People with Cancer active in their charts are subject to coughs, indigestion, gas, gallstones, general problems with stomach, liver and intestines, plus emotional disorders such as depression, hypochondria and hysteria.
Ideal colours for the Crab are white, silver, and pale yellow. Cancer rules metallic silver, while both the ruby and the pearl are the traditional Cancerian birthstones. Silver reflects its environment in its shiny polished surface, yet it can tarnish and become dull unless properly cared for. In the same way, your sensitive nature reflects the people and circumstances surrounding you. The precious ruby, a variety of corundum, is one of the hardest minerals known, while the pearl is soft and easily scratched. Here we have the two contrasting sides of the Cancerian personality: hard and determined, yet simultaneously soft and vulnerable. Cancerian flowers are the water lily (lotus), iris, white poppy, white carnation and southern magnolia.
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ABOUT THE CRABS
The crab is a nocturnal water creature that is well equipped with its massive claws to defend itself and survives very well in the 'wilds' of the underwater world in which it thrives.
They have also been prized for food throughout the ages. Crabs come in a variety of 'styles' and species and are found in most of the oceans of the world, as well as in many inland waters. Being a sea scavenger, the crabs help mankind by keeping our waters cleaner.
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YOUR BIRTHSTONE IS THE BEAUTIFUL PEARL
Your birthstone is the beautiful, translucent, PEARL. The Pearl can be all the silvery colors of the moon and not just white. The pearl takes on its silvery, shimmering, colors from the color of the linings of the mollusc (oyster) in which it is grown.
A beautiful, perfect pearl can sell for as much as $250,000.00, so speaking of a 'pearl of great price' becomes readily understandable. This precious stone can be harmed if subjected to hair spray, acids, perspiration, and some types of cosmetics.
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How to Attract a ManI remember my first job. There was this gorgeous guy working their the only problem was I had never talked to him but I knew I wanted him. Every day I wore my most revealing clothes, flashed my legs whenever he was about, and caked my face in make up. I did this for two months without even talking to him and he didn?t even notice me. Then one day I thought all my birthdays had come at once. Here I was standing in the lift with him.
The next thing I did I will never forget until the day I die. I jumped up at him and kissed him full blown on the lips. The poor bloke nearly had a heart attack. I told him I had been after him for ages but that he hadn't even noticed me. He exploded shouting that he had seen me and thought that I had been acting like a tart and that he was married but even if he wasn't I wouldn't stand a chance. Well I slapped him for the insult, walked out and never returned. This funny incident taught me a valuable lesson just be yourself (Oh and find out if he?s married). Here are a few pointers to keep in mind when trying to attract a man.
The man has to know that you exist. Say you have been working in the same office as the guy for a while and he hasn't noticed you the chances are he has no interest in you.
Confidence is the number one attraction. Being more confident with yourself and your surroundings will attract someone that is equal to you. You will also notice that more people are drawn to you.
Appearance is also a big issue. If he sees you when you are at your worst then he will not want to look a second time.
Give him a reason to think about you. Wear a lingering fragrance that sticks to his senses, soft clothes that he yearns to touch, and a smile that he can't get out of his mind.
Flirt with him.
Make him feel important. Listen to what he says, laugh at his jokes no matter how lame they are, and take an interest in his interests.
Don't try and be something you are not. He will be falling for a false idol and will not want to know you when he sees the real you.
Be vulnerable. Let down the armor. Let men do things for you then thank them for their help.
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